Tuesday, July 22, 2008

The Diamond will shine once again..

There is a totally different way of looking at people, that can adjust the way you look at the world..

Every person who is born, has a diamond.
Everyone has a beautiful, sparkling diamond on the inside and it's a gift to be treasured.
This diamond is a persons' self worth. Everybody is a person a deserves to be here. Everyone deserves to feel love, to be happy, to be healthy and, most importantly, everyone should feel worthy of themselves to see that they deserve to care for themselves and to love themselves for who they are. This self worth can alter throughout the years, by what people go through, their upbringing and beliefs they have been taught by their surroundings or have brought on themselves.
A person expresses this self worth through their self esteem. A person who is worthy of themselves, expresses this to the world through confidence.

People who care for themselves and love themselves on the inside, shine all the time. They shine, in good times and in bad times. They shine, no matter how lucky or unlucky they are. They shine, if they do or don't have money. They shine, when they make the right and wrong choices. This shine, comes from within. The key is to love and care for yourself when you are at your worst. When you are feeling lower than you could ever imagine, when you have the weight of the world on your shoulders, when you have lost the light at the end of the tunnel.. These are the times that a person needs to love themselves and tell themselves.. "I AM WORTHWHILE, I DO DESERVE TO BE HERE, I AM STILL A GOOD PERSON, I DESERVE TO LIVE, I AM HERE ON THIS PLANET TO SHINE.. Because it's easy to love yourself when you are doing well and have been successful and are feeling happy. But it's when a person can love themselves when they are not being successful or when they are feeling unhappy, that this person truly has the self esteem and knows that they STILL, NO MATTER WHAT, deserve to be here.

What a person does with their self worth, can be determined by their beliefs. A confident person, feels their self worth and their self esteem will express this strong feeling. They know they deserve to be here, they know they are a good person no matter what they achieve, loose, gain or receive in life. There will be a constant shine coming from within, touching the hearts of everyone they meet.

People who shine, are the richest people on the planet. Because what is life, if you don't feel worthy? What is the point in living, if you don't feel you deserve to be here? There is nobody else on this earth, except you, who will be able to see that you are a good person. Family and friends will tell you, but if you don't believe it yourself, it is meaningless. They always say, that before you can let somebody love you and totally appreciate this love and feel like you deserve to be loved, you have to love yourself first. Someone can have all the love in the world, surrounding them, but if this person doesn't love themselves and cannot see what it is that everyone loves so much, isn't it meaningless to this person?

Is there a more fulfilling feeling than knowing that you are worthwhile? You are a good person and you touch the people meet.. Knowing you are worthwhile is a gift, because you are then your own best friend, you know to look after yourself, you know you must care for yourself, you know you deserve friendship and love, you know you can rely on you to get yourself through bad things that life throws at you. Is there a more comforting feeling the world, know that you can always, no matter what happens, depend on number 1 to know what's best for you. Everyone deserves the best.. even me..

I suppose what I want to say is that, everybody has this diamond, if you have lost it along the way, it is never too late to dig deep and find it. Let it shine, we only get one chance in this life and we all should feel worthy. We deserve to be here. I'm going to find my diamond, because I AM worthwhile and even though Anna tells me everyday I don't deserve a meal, I do, because I am a human being just like everyone else..

I have to strength and I will find mine again.. I hope, if you have lost yours, that you also find the inner strength to make yours shine again too..

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thats our niamh talking!!! Very proud of you, love you lots xxxx

elena said...

you are a beautiful person niamh, and i know that you can't see that right now, but my niamh will shine again, of that i have no dough.

love you heaps mum xxxxx